The problem a clock is actually solving
Time stops being obvious long before memory becomes the main difficulty. A dark afternoon in November looks like early morning. A nap after lunch resets the day. Waking at four feels like waking at seven, and there is nothing in an ordinary bedroom that says otherwise.
A dementia clock answers that one question, permanently and without being asked: it is Tuesday, it is the afternoon. Because the answer is always there, nobody has to remember to give it, and nobody has to feel awkward asking again.
What to look for before you buy
- Words, not numbers alone. 'Tuesday afternoon' asks nothing of the reader. '14:32' asks quite a lot.
- A screen you can read from a chair across the room — most families end up wishing they had bought the larger one.
- Mains powered, with a battery only as backup. A clock that quietly dies on a set of AAs is worse than no clock.
- Automatic time changes in spring and autumn, so nobody has to find a manual in March.
- Few or no buttons on the front. Anything pressable will eventually be pressed.
- A display that dims at night rather than lighting the whole bedroom.
Where a clock is the right answer
If the recurring difficulty is orientation — repeated questions about the day, confusion between early morning and evening, getting dressed at odd hours — a clock is a genuinely good buy. It is a one-off cost, there is nothing to learn, nothing to charge and nothing to subscribe to. We would rather say that plainly than pretend every problem needs a service behind it.
Where it quietly runs out
- It waits to be looked at. If nobody glances up, nothing happens at all.
- It cannot say anything specific. A clock has no way to suggest a glass of water or mention that a grandchild is ringing at four.
- It has no sense of the week, so anything that happens only on Sundays gets no help.
- It tells you nothing at all. You still end up phoning to work out how the day went.
What families often end up with
A clock on the sideboard for orientation, and something separate for the handful of moments that matter — a short message at eleven and at three, in words that sound like you, with a single button to tap so you can see it was read.
That is what You Care Reminders is for. It is not a replacement for a clock, and if orientation is your only problem you do not need us. Where the two overlap, they overlap harmlessly.
For context
around 982,000
people are estimated to be living with dementia in the UK.
Source: Alzheimer's Society
roughly 6 in 10
people with dementia in the UK live in their own home, not in care.
Source: Alzheimer's Society