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# When living alone is no longer safe

Once the decision is made, the difficulty becomes logistical. Doing things in the right order saves months and, often, a great deal of money.

Short answer

Ask the council for a care needs assessment first, then a financial assessment, then look at options. Doing it the other way round is how families end up paying for care they were entitled to help with.

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01 

## Request a care needs assessment

Contact adult social care at their local council. The assessment is free, is not means-tested, and establishes what support is needed. Ask for a carer's assessment for yourself at the same time — it is a separate legal right.

02 

## Then the financial assessment

This determines what the council will contribute. Check Attendance Allowance too, which is not means-tested and is very widely under-claimed. Age UK can help with the forms.

03 

## Look at the options honestly

-   Home care visits, one to four times a day. 
-   Live-in care, which is often cheaper than assumed compared with residential care. 
-   Sheltered or extra care housing, keeping a front door and independence. 
-   Moving in with family, with the practical and financial consequences discussed openly. 
-   Residential or nursing care, where nursing needs exist. 

04 

## Sort the legal side

Lasting Power of Attorney for both finance and health should be arranged while capacity is clear. Without it, families face a Court of Protection application, which is slow and expensive. This is the single most common regret we hear.

05 

## Check for NHS Continuing Healthcare

Where needs are primarily health-related rather than social, NHS Continuing Healthcare can fund the full cost. It is worth asking for an assessment; it is rarely offered unprompted.

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## Questions carers ask

### Will they have to sell the house?

### How quickly can care be arranged?

### Is live-in care really an option?

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