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Respite

# Respite care, and how to actually get it

Respite is the thing every carer is told to take and almost nobody organises in time. Booking it early is the whole trick.

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## The forms respite takes

-   A short stay in a care home, from a few nights to a couple of weeks. 
-   Replacement care at home, where a carer covers your role in the house. 
-   Day centres, which give a regular few hours back each week. 
-   Sitting services, often run by local charities for shorter breaks. 
-   Family cover, arranged formally with dates rather than left as goodwill. 

## How to arrange it

Start with the council. A carer's assessment for you and a needs assessment for the person you care for together determine what is funded and what is chargeable.

You can also arrange respite privately. Get two or three quotes, ask specifically about minimum stays, and check the latest CQC report for any care home you are considering.

## Planning the break itself

-   Book earlier than feels necessary; good respite places go quickly, especially in summer. 
-   Do a short trial stay before a longer one where possible. 
-   Write down the routine, the likes and the dislikes, and hand it over on paper. 
-   Keep the everyday reminders running so the rhythm is unbroken when you return. 
-   Agree who is the emergency contact while you are away. 

## The guilt

Almost every carer feels it, and almost every carer comes back better able to cope. A break is part of caring well, not a departure from it.

## The wider picture

a legal right

every unpaid carer in England can ask their council for a carer's assessment, whatever their income or savings.

Source: [NHS](https://www.nhs.uk/social-care-and-support/support-and-benefits-for-carers/carer-assessments/)

5.0 million

people in England and Wales provide unpaid care, according to the 2021 Census.

Source: [Office for National Statistics, Census 2021](https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/healthandsocialcare/healthandwellbeing/bulletins/unpaidcareenglandandwales/census2021)

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## Questions carers ask

### Who pays for respite?

### How far ahead should I book?

### Will they be unsettled by it?

### What about the routine while I am away?

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