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Night waking

# When the nights stop being nights

Broken nights wear down everyone, including the person waking. The causes are usually ordinary, and several of them are fixable in an afternoon.

Short answer

Look for the four common causes first — needing the toilet, pain, being too warm or too cold, and dozing from early evening. Fixing the evening usually fixes the night better than anything you can do at three in the morning.

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01 

## Rule out the bathroom problem

Frequent night trips are the single most common cause. A continence assessment through the GP is free and often makes a dramatic difference. A commode or a well-lit, obstacle-free route to the bathroom reduces both waking and falls.

02 

## Check for pain

Arthritic pain shows up when someone lies still. If waking happens at the same point every night and involves getting up to move, pain is the likely reason and worth raising with the GP.

03 

## Fix the light and the temperature

A dim plug-in nightlight in the hall and bathroom reduces disorientation and falls. Bedrooms that are too warm wake people; the general guidance is around 18°C for sleeping. Blackout curtains help in summer.

04 

## Protect the evening

-   No dozing in the chair after eight — this is the biggest single lever. 
-   Daylight in the morning, ideally outdoors, sets the body clock. 
-   Caffeine after mid-afternoon lingers longer with age. 
-   Keep the last hour quiet and predictable rather than televised news. 

05 

## When it is dementia-related wandering

Getting up dressed and ready to leave is different from waking to use the bathroom. Keep keys out of sight, consider a door sensor, and speak to the GP or memory service. This is a situation where telecare and a key safe genuinely help.

## Being straight with you

You Care Reminders is a non-medical wellness tool, not a monitoring service and not an alarm. Delivery is best effort rather than guaranteed, and it must not be used for medication reminders. If you are worried about someone's health, speak to their GP; in an emergency, call 999.

## Questions carers ask

### Are sleeping tablets an option?

### Should I put a camera in?

### Could an infection be causing this?

## Read next

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-   [Do dementia clocks help wandering?](/do-dementia-clocks-help-wandering)
-   [Living alone with dementia](/living-alone-with-dementia)

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